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The Affair - A Moral issue
Our view on having
an affair – Only the strong survive
If your thinking
about having an affair, then we suggest you stop, think, and realise an affair is one of the
most selfish acts you can do in a lifetime. Not only do you hurt your partner, you could
also hurt other important people in your life, such as close family, or even in law family
that you have grown close too.
If you have children
together, then having an affair becomes even more selfish. Think long and hard, before you
act, your whole life may thank you for it.
Some people may
think that it is exciting to have an affair, and they may even think that they are pulling
the wool over everyone’s eyes, when in reality, there will be more people on to your
affair then you realise. I very much dought you will be pulling the wool over anyone’s
eyes, not for long anyway.
So why do people
have affairs, what is actually gained?
Certainly, many
people will tell you about the buzz and thrill, especially at the beginning of an affair.
The very fact that it is secret seems to add some sort of energy to the affair, but the
problem with this is that this feeling of energy can and does become addictive.
What this basically
means is that when all hit homes, in other words, when shit hits the fan, the bubble bursts,
everyone finds out, and everything comes crashing down, many will surrender and may even
repeat the affair as a way of getting away from the cold hard truth.
The truth is that
not only are you weak, selfish and a liar, you are also betraying you’re self, your
partner, your family, and if you’re a religious person, or even spiritual, then you are
also betraying god.
For some women the
adventure of an affair has a strong exciting unknown appeal, and certainly mutual sexual
attraction plays a huge part in most relationships that are based on having an affair. The
problem may arise however, that one may well want more from this affair than just a fling.
To be honest though, that is not even important.
What is important is
the person you are cheating on. There feelings are important, and to be honest, far more
important than the person you’re cheating with. If this is a long relationship, think
of all the things you have been through together, the good and the bad, the love, the hate,
all the passion, arguments, your also cheating on your whole life with that person.
We summarise this
article on a big shame on you for all those cheaters out there.
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